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Apr 21
littlesspace:

To love yourself
Very often I read about Littles/Middles desperately wanting a Daddy to love them and I very often get messages from sweet people who tell me about their struggles with self acceptance, so I thought I will try to guide you through the process of love.
Many of you out there, whether you are a little, middle, ABDL, Daddy etc. search for on thing that you think only someone else can give you: Unconditional love. Someone to take care of you. Someone who makes you feel wanted, cherished, needed. Littles are not that different from Daddys and Mommys here. It’s a lovely, awesome symbiosis that both parts gain a lot from, if they are willing to give.
But this is, where you forget: You can be your Daddy. You can be your Little. You can love yourself unconditionally. You can take care of yourself, treat yourself to nice things, make yourself feel needed and wanted. By yourself.
I know, this sounds really dumb and you may say “Well, but getting this from someone else is much better.” right? But this is where you go wrong. Exepct for towards yourself, you ARE ‘someone else’. To me, to all my readers expect you, you are the ‘someone else’ they may want this love from. So why don’t you start giving it to yourself? Be ‘someone else’ for yourself.
Start taking care of you. Treat yourself not to sweet, but to healthy food. Dress up all pretty and take a lot of selfies to celebrate your beauty. Go out and do fun stuff all by yourself and discover things you may not have been able to discover, if another person was with you. Take time for yourself. Write a love letter adressed at you. Take time to love yourself more than anyone else for some hours, days, weeks. Because you know what? You deserve this. You are awesome. And if you think you suck, your life is a mess and you maybe even have these really bad thoughts about not wanting to live anymore, please try it.
Try to treat yourself the way you would treat your Little, Mommy or Daddy. Embrace all your sweet quirks, laugh about the tiny mistakes you make, take pictures of the things you failed at, just to realize a bit later that failing is not bad at all and wondering how you could feel bad about such a small thing. Be the person you want to marry. Be the person you long for. Make yourself your number one and I can promise you, you will feel everything you ever wanted.
Putting yourself first ist not bad. It’s what you should do. Once you learned how to love yourself as deeply and passionately as I wish you would, you will most like find someone else to share this love with. And I also may add this: Loving someone who loves himself is much more fun than loving someone and constantly having to convince them about how great they are. I am sure you knew or still know someone like this. Maybe your partner, your friend, your sibling. Someone you think is a really cool person, but they just don’t want to believe you, when you tell them how lovely they are. Well guess what, so are you.
See yourself the way you see other people. You don’t scan their skin for flaws. You don’t judge their way of living. You don’t stare at them for hours to find things that people may find unattractive. You see them and you either think nothing at all or you have a compiment in mind. Things like “Oh, his hair is really fancy.”, “Wow, she looks awesome in those jeans”, “Aw, what a nice perfume he’s wearing.” “I love the music that is coming out of her earphones”. Those are the things you think when you encounter strangers, friends or family. Not “Her pimple makes her look like a disgusting little prick” or “That hair is nasty, you should have stayed inside.” No no no.
To love yourself should be your number one priority. You are beautiful and amazing and I want to be your friend. Did you hear me? Can you do this for me? Take care of yourself the way you want to take care of for others or beeing taken care of. Please try it. You are worth the effort. Okay?

littlesspace:

To love yourself

Very often I read about Littles/Middles desperately wanting a Daddy to love them and I very often get messages from sweet people who tell me about their struggles with self acceptance, so I thought I will try to guide you through the process of love.

Many of you out there, whether you are a little, middle, ABDL, Daddy etc. search for on thing that you think only someone else can give you: Unconditional love. Someone to take care of you. Someone who makes you feel wanted, cherished, needed. Littles are not that different from Daddys and Mommys here. It’s a lovely, awesome symbiosis that both parts gain a lot from, if they are willing to give.

But this is, where you forget: You can be your Daddy. You can be your Little. You can love yourself unconditionally. You can take care of yourself, treat yourself to nice things, make yourself feel needed and wanted. By yourself.

I know, this sounds really dumb and you may say “Well, but getting this from someone else is much better.” right? But this is where you go wrong. Exepct for towards yourself, you ARE ‘someone else’. To me, to all my readers expect you, you are the ‘someone else’ they may want this love from. So why don’t you start giving it to yourself? Be ‘someone else’ for yourself.

Start taking care of you. Treat yourself not to sweet, but to healthy food. Dress up all pretty and take a lot of selfies to celebrate your beauty. Go out and do fun stuff all by yourself and discover things you may not have been able to discover, if another person was with you. Take time for yourself. Write a love letter adressed at you. Take time to love yourself more than anyone else for some hours, days, weeks. Because you know what? You deserve this. You are awesome. And if you think you suck, your life is a mess and you maybe even have these really bad thoughts about not wanting to live anymore, please try it.

Try to treat yourself the way you would treat your Little, Mommy or Daddy. Embrace all your sweet quirks, laugh about the tiny mistakes you make, take pictures of the things you failed at, just to realize a bit later that failing is not bad at all and wondering how you could feel bad about such a small thing. Be the person you want to marry. Be the person you long for. Make yourself your number one and I can promise you, you will feel everything you ever wanted.

Putting yourself first ist not bad. It’s what you should do. Once you learned how to love yourself as deeply and passionately as I wish you would, you will most like find someone else to share this love with. And I also may add this: Loving someone who loves himself is much more fun than loving someone and constantly having to convince them about how great they are. I am sure you knew or still know someone like this. Maybe your partner, your friend, your sibling. Someone you think is a really cool person, but they just don’t want to believe you, when you tell them how lovely they are. Well guess what, so are you.

See yourself the way you see other people. You don’t scan their skin for flaws. You don’t judge their way of living. You don’t stare at them for hours to find things that people may find unattractive. You see them and you either think nothing at all or you have a compiment in mind. Things like “Oh, his hair is really fancy.”, “Wow, she looks awesome in those jeans”, “Aw, what a nice perfume he’s wearing.” “I love the music that is coming out of her earphones”. Those are the things you think when you encounter strangers, friends or family. Not “Her pimple makes her look like a disgusting little prick” or “That hair is nasty, you should have stayed inside.” No no no.

To love yourself should be your number one priority. You are beautiful and amazing and I want to be your friend. Did you hear me? Can you do this for me? Take care of yourself the way you want to take care of for others or beeing taken care of. Please try it. You are worth the effort. Okay?

Apr 21
Apr 20

aballycakes:

dailydiapers:

AllyCakes helps us celebrate 3,000 Facebook fans with this mini-set of never before seen photos!

:-)

Apr 20
Apr 19

dlboyinia:

repaidinfull:

8? I only have 8 pictures of her? Damn!

dang what a perfect little diaper girl! i really really like the picture with just the diaper and the bra! soooo hot! thank you for sharing the pictures! doug

Apr 19
dltoart:

lunagoesrawr:

me as a kitty :3

My Babygirl is such a cutie <3

dltoart:

lunagoesrawr:

me as a kitty :3

My Babygirl is such a cutie <3

Apr 18
Apr 18

yaddy123:

Here are some shots of me in little mode 💕

Apr 18
Apr 18
Apr 18
babystevie26:

cookiegoesrawrrr:

dreamiedaddy:

allygator814:

littlepiggythings:

wobr:

This is getting ridiculous.
linking and experimental quick coloring

Some days being little isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.

Somedays ….I wonder why I chose this…or rather…why it chose me .

The facial expression and body language of this little one in the drawing is so powerful. It shows the feelings of frustration, sadness, and even shame. Feelings that every little and even a caretaker as myself experiences at some point in their journey of discovery themselves. Even sometimes most of us may wonder why me? Wishing to be ‘normal.’
While everyone knows who we are as littles and caretakers is commonly misunderstood, it is not a bad thing to be who we are. It is a good thing to be a little or care taker. It can open up your mind and help you become a better person morally. You are likely to be more open minded and more accepting to people’s differences no matter what they might be.
I also believe being a little or caretaker can create such a strong and close relationship between a little and caretaker, because it takes such an incredible amount of trust for a little to trust their partner with being taken care of on such a personal level. To the point of even dressing, diapering, bathing, guiding, disciplining, and so much more.
So even though most of us did not choose this, and even though we are commonly misunderstood, we should be proud of who we are. Proud that it is likely to make us a better person in a moral sense by making us more open minded and less judgemental of others. To be happy once we find the right one it will help us create such a deeply intimate relationship. I see it as a gift because it can open our minds and can make us so much closer and trusting in our relationship. So be happy because it is truly a blessing in disguise.

Reblogging because of the powerful statement that was just made.

Since nobody’s mentioned it, the pic is based off an episode of “My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic” (at least I’ve assumed since the pic first came out after the episode).  Pony character Applejack gets super-protective of her kid sister Apple Bloom and proceeds to childproof the entire house, going so far as to turn Apple Bloom’s bed into a crib (as seen here)

babystevie26:

cookiegoesrawrrr:

dreamiedaddy:

allygator814:

littlepiggythings:

wobr:

This is getting ridiculous.

linking and experimental quick coloring

Some days being little isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.

Somedays ….I wonder why I chose this…or rather…why it chose me .

The facial expression and body language of this little one in the drawing is so powerful. It shows the feelings of frustration, sadness, and even shame. Feelings that every little and even a caretaker as myself experiences at some point in their journey of discovery themselves. Even sometimes most of us may wonder why me? Wishing to be ‘normal.’

While everyone knows who we are as littles and caretakers is commonly misunderstood, it is not a bad thing to be who we are. It is a good thing to be a little or care taker. It can open up your mind and help you become a better person morally. You are likely to be more open minded and more accepting to people’s differences no matter what they might be.

I also believe being a little or caretaker can create such a strong and close relationship between a little and caretaker, because it takes such an incredible amount of trust for a little to trust their partner with being taken care of on such a personal level. To the point of even dressing, diapering, bathing, guiding, disciplining, and so much more.

So even though most of us did not choose this, and even though we are commonly misunderstood, we should be proud of who we are. Proud that it is likely to make us a better person in a moral sense by making us more open minded and less judgemental of others. To be happy once we find the right one it will help us create such a deeply intimate relationship. I see it as a gift because it can open our minds and can make us so much closer and trusting in our relationship. So be happy because it is truly a blessing in disguise.

Reblogging because of the powerful statement that was just made.

Since nobody’s mentioned it, the pic is based off an episode of “My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic” (at least I’ve assumed since the pic first came out after the episode).  Pony character Applejack gets super-protective of her kid sister Apple Bloom and proceeds to childproof the entire house, going so far as to turn Apple Bloom’s bed into a crib (as seen here)

Apr 17

lunagoesrawr:

This is me cosplaying as Danika ^^ Shes an  DL astro babe that my daddy created a while ago on his deveiantART. When my daddy visit me a couple of weeks ago he made her design on one of my diapers that he got me , which made this cosplay super cute .My daddy is known for his abdl drawings and ifinterested you should look at his other drawings ^^

http://dltoart.deviantart.com/

Apr 17

Could you do me a favor?

kyrasmusings:

If you feel that there is nothing wrong with being an adult baby, if enjoying wearing diapers doesn’t make you a freak, if it’s not weird or abnormal to find happiness in acting like an infant or toddler.

If you agree with all that, could you pretty please reblog this?

Thank you ^_^

Apr 17
vivi-shiba:


j-aws:

ryedragon:

inritum:

reblog and make a wish!this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.
THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.
The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.
AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.
THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.

yay its back.

so…I half jokingly reblogged this yesterday cos I thought it was a nice picture…and was like oh wow I only get wishes on birthdays what would I wish for?!?!?! how about gainful employment L0L… and like…I have a job now? That I never applied for? That someone just called me up and said “here, have this”? In a place I really really like?So like… h8ers gonna h8 or something

vivi-shiba:

j-aws:

ryedragon:

inritum:

reblog and make a wish!


this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.

THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.

AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.

THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.

yay its back.

so…
I half jokingly reblogged this yesterday cos I thought it was a nice picture…
and was like oh wow I only get wishes on birthdays what would I wish for?!?!?! how about gainful employment L0L

… and like…

I have a job now? That I never applied for? That someone just called me up and said “here, have this”? In a place I really really like?

So like… h8ers gonna h8 or something

Apr 17

Odette

Naughty Diaper Girls